A learned Nigerian lawyer who goes by the name, Esq. Illavbare Rahmatulai (Goldfish Rahmatulai), has quickened the rage in most men after a contrary post she made on social media regarding the submission of wives to their husbands.
In the post, she outlined certain crucial reasons that could warrant unsubmissive behaviours from wives to their husbands, and almost all the women who came across it could not help but agree with her.
According to the lawyer, women do not mind if the men they have married are wealthy or broke because it all depends on the treatment they receive in the marriage.
Every woman deserves respect, love and appreciation in the same way a man demands respect, love and appreciation for being the ‘head’ of the family.
Men are expected to perform the duties of a ‘head’, but if at a point in time, their wives take up those responsibilities, they need to be grateful and show appreciation, and quit feeling inferior.
Take a look at the post :
Nevertheless, marriage should be all about equality and not about who is boss over who, because when it gets to that stage, nothing else can work.
